Yasmin Shiraz

C. Breezy talks Rihanna and Domestic Violence tomorrow night, Friday, December 4 on 20/20 with Robin Roberts. Watch it and tell me what you think.

When I heard this courageous young man’s story of growing up in a household where domestic violence was the norm, I knew I had to share it with you all. He’s strong and shared how he saw his father be violent with his mother on a regular basis. If you want to use a video to get the discussion about domestic violence on the table with males, allow your folks to see this video.

Rihanna on the cover of Glamour Mag

As she readies the release of her new album, pop star, Rihanna is finally speaking out about the Chris Brown incident. She has an appearance with Diane Sawyer on Thursday morning. But she already gave lots of juicy details to Glamour magazine as shared by the peeps at Blogxilla.com. Here are some details from the interview:

Rihanna: “But at some point you are there alone. It’s a lonely place to be—no one can understand. That’s when you get close to God.”

Are you referring to the [Chris Brown] incident?

Rihanna: I am talking about starting with the night [before] the Grammys and then on. That was not the only thing that occurred this year. The picture leaking…it was one thing after another.

You’re talking about the photo [reportedly of Rihanna’s injured face taken by police after Brown assaulted her] that was allegedly leaked by cops. You handled that so well; you kept silent in the press.

Rihanna: It was humiliating; that is not a photo you would show to anybody. I felt completely taken advantage of. I felt like people were making it into a fun topic on the Internet, and it’s my life. I was disappointed, especially when I found out the photo was [supposedly leaked by] two women.

How has this event changed you as a person, as a woman?

Rihanna: I’m stronger, wiser and more aware. You don’t realize how much your decisions affect people you don’t even know, like fans.

Do you feel that this experience has laid the groundwork for coping with anything so public again?

Rihanna: It has taught me so much. I felt like I went to sleep as Rihanna and woke up as Britney Spears. That was the level of media chaos that happened the next day. It was like, What, there are helicopters circling my house? There are 100 people in my cul-de-sac? What do you mean, I can’t go back home?

If you could offer a message to the millions of young women who look up to you, what would you tell someone who found herself in a similar situation?

Rihanna: Domestic violence is a big secret. No kid goes around and lets people know their parents fight. Teenage girls can’t tell their parents that their boyfriend beat them up. You don’t dare let your neighbor know that you fight. It’s one of the things we [women] will hide, because it’s embarrassing. My story was broadcast all over the world for people to see, and they have followed every step of my recovery. The positive thing that has come out of my situation is that people can learn from that. I want to give as much insight as I can to young women, because I feel like I represent a voice that really isn’t heard. Now I can help speak for those women.“

What do you think about Rihanna finally speaking out? Do you think it will help others? Do you think she shouldn’t talk about the incident?